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I Endured an Emotionally Abusive Relationship Because of Low Self Esteem

Leave before you find yourself damaged and bitter Image via Unsplash ''You are the reason I am cheating,''He'd tell me that everytime I found out he was cheating. And with time I believed that it was and will always be my fault if anything happens in our relationship. I constantly berated myself, thinking I should have tried harder, been more loving, more patient. And the cycle of blame and gaslight repeated itself every time he cheated. What broke me most is that I couldn't let go. He was just a boyfriend. Not even my husband. We weren’t bound together by any vows. But I just couldn't leave. I never understood why. But years later, I understood why I couldn't. And here are the reasons I couldn't leave… Read Also: Stop Telling People Everything! 8 Reasons Why I Couldn’t Leave the Relationship Many times I’d pack my bags or even go far to leave him. But I found myself running back to him. Here are the reasons I kept running back. 1. He Was Lovely

The Truth is, You Don’t Need Closure

Cut ties and move on without glancing back… Image via Unsplash What did I do? What did I say? What could I have done differently? Is there someone else? Can we still be friends? Can we fix this? We torture ourselves with questions when a relationship ends. We want to know the answers. We want to know why. We want to make sense of what we don’t understand. Yes, closure can help. It can bridge the gap between confusion and heartbreak. It guides us to accept the loss and find the strength to look ahead. With closure, we realize there is no turning back. There are no what-ifs. No second chance. The other person has made up their mind for the reason of x, y, and z. As much as it hurts, closure can help us turn the page and start a new chapter. But what happens if you don’t get closure? What do you do when your ex won’t communicate or has abruptly ended all contact with you? Just one day, poof — they're gone. Or your relationship ended on bad terms. You saw it coming. You knew the brea

I Battled With Low Self Esteem During My Teen Years

Black is Beautiful… This is me...Black is beautiful I'm dark in complexion. And this took a toll on me in my teen years. It became worse when I started growing bigger due to adolescence. I always felt like I wasn't beautiful compared to brown girls. You know, in those days, the standard of beauty was being lighter. To be honest, I sometimes hated myself, felt worthless. It took me years to start believing that I was beautiful, to look in the mirror and say it. I didn't understand why I didn't believe in myself. But later, I came to understand where my insecurities stemmed from. Keep reading to find out more about my battle with low self-esteem during my teen years. Read Also: Abusive Partners are Always Nice to Other People Factors that Contributed to my Low Self Esteem There were alot of factors that made me feel less beautiful. They include: 1. Skin Color Being dark-skinned in a society that values lighter skin tones can lead to feelings of inadequacy or un

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