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2025 🔥

  It took me so long to write about 2025.  I usually write on New Year’s Eve about how the whole year had been.  But 2025 was a bit heavy… I just couldn’t. 🥲 Every time I tried, the words felt like stones. Not soft. Not flowy. Just… heavy. Image via Pixabay 2025 started quietly. Too quietly. 👀 My writing gigs dried up. You know that slow panic when emails stop coming in? When you keep refreshing your inbox like it owes you money? 😭 That was me. I told myself it was just January. Then February said, “Relax.” March said, “Be patient.” April said, “Sis… we need a meeting.” The gigs weren’t just slow. They disappeared.  Clients ghosted.  Projects paused.  Budgets “shifted.”  Suddenly I had a lot of time. Too much time. And time without money? Very loud. 💀 Read Also: Life is About Knowing the Truth Celebrate Your Small Wins I Endured an Emotionally Abusive Relationship Because of Low Self Esteem I remember sitting at my desk one afternoon. Laptop open. ...

If You’re Stuck in Procrastination, Here’s How to Break Free

  Procrastination is Holding You Back… Procrastination is like quicksand—you don’t realize how deep you’re in until you’re struggling to get out.  You tell yourself you’ll start in five minutes, but five minutes turn into hours, days, or even weeks.  The guilt piles up, making it even harder to take action.  If you’re stuck in this cycle, don’t worry—you’re not lazy or incapable.  You just need a way out.  Here’s how to break free from procrastination and take back control. 1. Understand Why You’re Procrastinating Procrastination isn’t just about being lazy.  It’s often rooted in deeper reasons like fear of failure , perfectionism, lack of motivation, or even burnout.  If you’re avoiding a task, ask yourself:  ✅Why am I putting this off? ✅Are you afraid of not doing it perfectly? ✅Does the task feel overwhelming? ✅Do you lack clarity on how to start? ✅Are you just exhausted? Once you identify the root cause, you can tackle it directly. If it’...