No one prepares you for adulthood… Becoming an adult is more than just hitting a certain age—it’s a series of life shifts that no one really prepares you for. You’ll face unexpected changes in relationships, finances, health, and even how you view yourself. Adulting is full of lessons, some rewarding, others challenging. Here are seven things no one tells you about growing up, but knowing them can make the journey a bit smoother. 1. Friendships Require More Work Than You Think Maintaining friendships as an adult requires far more intention and effort than it did during school or college years. Back then, you had structured environments where you saw your friends almost daily, whether in class, clubs, or dorms. But as adults, life often scatters people in different directions, with full schedules, work demands, family obligations, and personal goals filling up your time. To keep a friendship alive, you have to initiate. This could mean reaching out for coffee or dinner, scheduli