MyGrowthDiary

  Five Choices to Avoid… Life is full of lessons, and if I’ve learned anything, it’s that avoiding certain mistakes can save you a lot of regret.  I’m not saying I’ve got it all figured out—I’m still learning every day.  But I’ve had my fair share of “I wish I hadn’t done that” moments, and I want to save you from a few of them.  Here are five things I urge you not to do in your life. 1. Don’t Chase Perfection For the longest time, I thought being perfect was the ultimate goal.  I wanted the perfect job, the perfect body, and the perfect life.  But perfection is a myth .  Trying to chase it only made me feel like I wasn’t enough. It drained my energy and made me overlook the beauty of what I already had. Instead of chasing perfection, I’ve learned to embrace progress. I focus on doing my best and celebrating small wins.  Life isn’t about flawless achievements; it’s about growth and enjoying the journey.  Trust me, letting go of perfection feels like taking a deep, freeing breath. 2. Do

  S peaking Less Can Be Your Strongest Asset… Have you ever found yourself in a conversation, struggling to get your words across, only to realize that you’ve said too much?  Or maybe you’ve witnessed someone who says very little but commands attention every time they speak?  It’s not just about saying less—it's about saying more with less.  The power of speaking less is something that can significantly impact your personal and professional life, making you more influential and respected.  Let’s explore why speaking less can make you stand out in a world that often values volume over quality. Why Speaking Less is Powerful There’s a unique strength in choosing silence over speech.  When you say less, every word you say holds more weight.  Here's why speaking less is powerful 1. Speaking Less Increases Your Listening Skills Speaking less naturally requires that you listen more. And listening is a skill that, while simple, can significantly improve your relationships and effective

  Five years of pure joy, endless wonder, and a lifetime of love. Happy Birthday, my son! Today marks five incredible years since you came into my world, son.  The moment I heard your first cry, it was as if a new chapter had opened, one that I never wanted to put down.  You were so small, wrapped snugly in that soft blanket, looking up at me with those curious eyes.  I remember marveling at your tiny fingers and toes, each one perfect and delicate. In that instant, I realized I would do anything to protect you, to make you smile, and to give you all the love I had to offer. Since then, every single day with you has been a new adventure.  Watching you grow from that tiny newborn into the vibrant, curious, and joyful five-year-old you are now has been the greatest journey of my life. Each milestone you reached filled me with pride—the first time you laughed, the day you took your first wobbly steps, the first words you spoke. Each one of those moments felt like a precious gift. You have

  Stop Guessing, Start Valuing Yourself – Lessons in Love from He’s Just Not That Into You… Buy on Amazon Well, I’ve had my fair share of moments wondering, analyzing, and even overthinking every word and gesture, trying to understand what men actually mean when they say (or don’t say) certain things.  A couple of years back, I was right there with friends over coffee, dissecting texts, reading into silences, and asking questions like, “Is he just busy, or is he not interested?”  Those conversations would spin into endless theories and possibilities, each one more confusing than the last.  It was exhausting, honestly. That’s when I picked up He’s Just Not That Into You by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo, hoping for some clarity—and wow, did it deliver. He’s Just Not That Into You finally put those questions to rest for me.  The book stripped away the mystery and laid out the hard truth: when a man is interested, he’ll make it known without needing me to decode his intentions.  It’s blu