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  Last night I was thinking about my past life, the broken relationships, and everything in between.  And a question popped into my mind;  Is closure really necessary?  What could have been different if I got closure on my past?  Image via Unsplash We're told from an early age that closure is vital. We watch it unfold in countless movies and read about it in the pages of novels. The protagonist confronts their past, seeks answers, and ultimately finds solace in the resolution of their inner turmoil. It's a satisfying narrative arc that ties up loose ends, but does it mirror reality? Closure, it seems, is a concept drenched in ambiguity. It's like a mirage in the desert, shimmering just out of reach, promising relief from the relentless thirst for unresolved issues. But does it truly quench that thirst, or does it merely offer a temporary reprieve? I've known people who have embarked on quests for closure, seeking out those who have wronged them or desperately chasing th

Happiness takes many forms. Image via Unsplash Happiness is a complex and deeply personal emotion, and its definition varies from person to person.  What brings one individual boundless joy might have a different impact on someone else.  So, how do you know if you're really happy? Well, let’s find out! Related: Does Success Guarantee Happiness? 6 Signs You’re Genuinely Happy Happiness is a cornerstone of a fulfilling life.  But how can you discern whether you are genuinely happy?  Below are the telltale signs of true happiness: 1. You Aren’t Afraid to Pursue your Dreams A strong signal that you are genuinely happy is your unyielding pursuit of your ambitions. You refuse to be shackled by fear and boldly chase your life's desires. You empower yourself to transform dreams into reality, recognizing your inherent potential for greatness. You understand that happiness emanates from within and is not contingent upon external circumstances. This liberates you to take risks and pursue

Success can mean vastly different things to different people. Image via Unsplash I hear people say, 'I'd be happy if I get a well-paying job,' or sometimes, 'I'd be happy if I get that car I've been eyeing.'  And such comments make me question: Does success really guarantee happiness?  Are we supposed to be happy only if we get the fine things we want? Let’s find out. You May Also Like: 5 Reasons Why Everyone Seems to be Doing Better Than You Stop seeing men who aren’t making their intentions clear The Connection Between Happiness and Success When I was young, I'd often be told to work hard, earn good grades, get a good job, have a great family, and I'd lead a happy life.  It seemed like a straightforward formula: Success first, happiness later.  Many of us grew up with this paradigm deeply ingrained in our minds, believing that the pursuit of success is the key to unlocking happiness. However, I came to realize that this formula was not as foolproof

I recently had a long chat with my friend (let’s call him Bob), and he opened up about his experience working as a graphic designer in a startup. This story is an eye-opener and heart-wrenching.   Image via Unsplash Here is Bob’s story…  Bob was excited when he landed a graphic designer role in a startup in January 2023. He’d graduated two years ago with a bachelor's degree in Mass communication. However since he couldn’t find a job that aligned with the course, he decided to venture into graphic design, and within no time, he landed himself a role.  His journey began with excitement and anticipation, just like any of us starting a new job. The CEO was an eloquent and persuasive individual. He painted a vivid picture of success and prosperity, tempting Bob with the allure of a promising future. For the first few months, he worked diligently, creating captivating graphics for the company's marketing materials, website, and social media campaigns. The CEO constantly praised his w

I won't lie to you that I'm where I envisioned my life would be at 27.  When I was young, I had this vivid image of success, stability, and a clear path ahead.  But suddenly, life feels so wide open all of a sudden. I feel like my dreams are just beginning, and my life is headed where I've always wanted it to be. It's as though the universe has unfolded its map before me, daring me to explore the unknown. I feel less shakable, more resilient, and significantly less worried about what anyone thinks of me. It's like the noise is starting to fade away, and I'm finding my authentic self beneath it all. The weight of others' expectations no longer holds me down. I now realize that the most important approval I need is from myself. Honestly, turning to an age close to 30 makes me take a closer look at all the life choices I've made up to this point. I've stumbled, fallen, and sometimes felt utterly lost, but those experiences have been the stepping stones