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8 Ways to Stay Positive While Job Searching

Job search can be tough. But, you got to keep going. Image via Pixabay I know it’s easy to become frustrated or disheartened during a job search, particularly if you've been unemployed or job-hunting for an extended period.  However, it’s essential to try to remain positive throughout this process. A positive mindset will motivate you to continue your search and significantly impact your outlook and demeanor during interviews and networking opportunities.  Maintaining a positive attitude increases your chances of making a solid first impression and can make a real difference in the outcome of your job search. During my own experience with job searching, I have discovered several strategies that have helped me stay positive and motivated.  These tips have helped me navigate the challenges and uncertainties of the job search process with greater resilience and optimism.  Sharing these strategies with you can also contribute to your ability to stay positive and succeed in your job sea

5 Reasons Why Everyone Seems to be Doing Better Than You

Image via Pixabay Every time I scroll through social media, I see all my friends and acquaintances posting about their amazing vacations, new promotions, new cars, and picture-perfect families.  And I can't help but wonder, "Why does it seem like everyone is doing better than me?" This feeling of inadequacy and comparison is all too common in today's society.  We are bombarded with images and messages that suggest success, happiness, and fulfillment are easily attainable.  However, when we look at our lives, we may feel like we are falling short. But what we see on social media is often a highlight reel of people's lives. A different reality often remains hidden behind those carefully curated posts and filtered snapshots.  So, if you've ever felt inadequate while scrolling through your feed, you're not alone. This article will explore five reasons why everyone seems to be doing better than you.  Let’s dive in! Read Also: It's halfway through 2023: A s

Stop Seeing Men Who Aren't Making Their Intentions Clear

I met Eddie(not his real name) in June 2022 and am writing this story in June 2023. Image via Unsplash If you ask me what’s hurting me right now, I’ll just tell you my expectations.  I hurt myself by expecting someone I loved to love me like I did for him. And a year later, he hasn't said anything, not even initiated romance. I am at a loss, sad and wish I had realized earlier that nothing would happen between us. I’ll tell you the story... I was going to work one morning. I can't remember the exact date, but it was mid-June. I was kinda late and was rushing. I heard a guy greet me, and when I looked up, he said, ‘’You're so beautiful’. I said thanks. His charismatic smile and gentle demeanor immediately caught my attention.  We conversed a little more, and he asked for my number, which I gave him without hesitating.  Little did I know that our encounter would mark the beginning of a mysterious journey that’d leave me questioning his intentions. Coffee Dates with Lingering

It's Halfway through 2023: A Series of Things Have Happened in My Life

  Image via Unsplash last night it dawned on me that we're halfway through 2023. And it kept me thinking, what have I achieved so far? It took an hour or so to reflect on how the year's first six months have been. And I realized I had achieved a few things, had lots of challenges, built personal relationships, and had a shift in my perspective of life.  I decided to document the things that have happened so that in 2024, a time like this, I will remember where I have come from. Here are a series of things that have happened. My Achievements and Milestones At the start of the year, I wrote down my goals for the year. And the most significant ones were as follows: To get a better job Commit to a regular exercise routine and incorporate healthy eating habits Take five online courses Travel to new places Read one personal development book a month Create a monthly budget and track expenses And when I took time to reflect last night, I noticed my life had taken a different turn. And