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Happy Birthday to Me! I Can’t Believe I’m Turning 28 Today

 Cheers to new beginnings and boundless possibilities...



Woohoo! Happy Birthday to me! I can’t believe I’m turning 28 today. 

It feels surreal to think that I’m inching closer to the big 30. Sometimes, I still feel like an 18-year-old—or even a 5-year-old, relishing the joys of youth. 

When people ask about my age, they often can’t believe I’m this “old” and estimate that I’m at least a few years younger. 

For the future, that’s not a bad thing, right? 

But let’s be honest: getting older wasn’t high on my list as a kid. I loved being a child, dreaming of carefree days without a worry in the world. Climbing trees and playing outside was my version of bliss. I longed for those days to last forever.

As I reflect on this past year, I can’t help but feel a sense of liberation. 

I’m excited to say goodbye to the chapters marked by anxiety, stress, indecision, uncertainty, self-deprecation, and confusion. Letting go of these burdens feels freeing, like shedding heavy layers that weighed me down. 

However, I know that turning 28 doesn’t magically erase those experiences; instead, it offers me a new opportunity to shape my journey. The power to create change lies within me.

I want to take a moment to thank the chapters and versions of myself that have brought me here. I’ve worked hard—really hard. I’ve endured pain and frustration, fought battles within myself that no one else could understand. Yet, I emerged on the other side, stronger, healthier, and better for it.

 Even during my darkest moments, when I felt like the dumbest, weakest, and least experienced in the room, I kept showing up. A small part of me believed in my worth, and for that, I am incredibly grateful. Despite my doubts, I’ve never wavered in believing that I have something worth saying.

I’m most proud of that unwavering determination.

Additionally, I’ve transformed my relationships with travel, money, romance, and friendship. Slowly but surely, I’m working on improving my self-image and self-worth. Now, as I turn the page to a new chapter in my life, I’m filled with excitement and a renewed focus.

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As I step into my 28th year, I have personal goals and reflections I want to carry forward. I’m not ready to share all my secrets just yet, but one thing is certain: I will continue my journey as a writer. I am a writer, and I want to take my passion to new heights. It’s time to stop getting in my own way and make my dreams a reality.

Here are some thoughts and feelings I’m embracing as I enter this new chapter of my life, after a decade of adulting:

1. The grass isn’t greener on the other side. How would you know if you never take the time to appreciate your own grass? Gratitude changes everything.

2. Gratitude and presence matter. No trip, outfit, event, or achievement will ever feel fulfilling unless I practice gratitude and stay present. It’s essential to appreciate where I am and what I have.

3. Jealousy can be a motivator. I’ve learned to use feelings of jealousy as inspiration rather than self-deprecation. When I feel envious, I’ll channel that energy into movement and action.

4. Social media doesn’t define me. I’m using social media with intention now, mindful of why I feel the need to post or scroll. I’m curating my experience and not allowing it to control me.

5. Moving my body is fun! I’m committed to finding joy in movement. Each day, I’ll engage in activities that make me feel good and alive.

6. Reading is my refuge. When in doubt, I’ll read. It’s never wasted time and offers countless benefits, from education to inspiration and mindfulness.

7. Sleep is a priority. I’m still working to improve my sleep habits, but I’ve come a long way. Sleep is essential for my well-being.

8. Let go of the need to win. I’ll focus on enjoying experiences rather than trying to come out on top. Life is too short not to have fun!

9. Never stop learning. I’ll keep my mind open and embrace new opportunities for growth and education.

10. It’s okay not to know everything. We need to stop pretending to have opinions on everything. I want to learn from others and foster deeper conversations.

11. I can build a comfortable life for myself. I have skills and worth, and I’m capable of creating the life I desire.

As I step into my 28th year, I feel a renewed sense of purpose and clarity. I’m ready to embrace the adventures, challenges, and joys that come my way. 

Here’s to new beginnings, continued growth, and making my dreams a reality. 

Cheers to 28!
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